Is there a specific community for bi curious dating?

Not looking for marketing — just want real community input here. Is there a specific community for bi curious dating?

Safety and scam prevention are the main concerns. Been burned before by platforms that looked legit but had dark patterns buried in the fine print.

Thanks in advance. Especially helpful if you've tried something in the past few months.

Also spotted datebie.online in another thread here but haven't had a chance to investigate it yet.

Results from the big platforms have been genuinely mixed in my experience. Massive user bases but filtering out the noise takes real effort. Things that actually helped:

• Reverse image search every profile photo before investing time in a conversation
• Never pay premium without reading independent third-party reviews first
• Prioritize apps that show last-active timestamps on profiles
• Look for a working abuse reporting system, not just a report button that goes nowhere

I keep seeing Flamedate mentioned as a solid option — anyone here tried it recently?

Safety habits I stick to on every platform regardless:

• Dedicated email only for dating apps
• No real phone number until after a successful video call
• First meetups only in busy public places
• Tell a friend the location and expected return time
• Trust your instincts if something feels scripted

Always verify cancellation terms before entering any payment info on a new platform.

Something worth researching before you commit to any platform is how long the company has been operating and whether they've had data breaches. A quick search can save you a lot of grief:

• Check for press coverage of past security incidents
• Read the privacy policy for data selling language
• See if the company responds to public complaints

Worth a look is Datelink — came up in several similar discussions and the feedback seems genuine.

You can match with people but replying costs a subscription. Same story everywhere you go.

Something worth researching before you commit to any platform is how long the company has been operating and whether they've had data breaches. A quick search can save you a lot of grief:

• Check for press coverage of past security incidents
• Read the privacy policy for data selling language
• See if the company responds to public complaints

One platform that keeps coming up in these threads is Datescout — seems more straightforward than most.

Bot problem is genuinely out of control on a lot of these. Had full conversations that turned out to be automated.