How do I delete my plenty of fish dating profile permanently?

Started by Ryan Murphy 21 Jun 2026 Free Dating & Apps Discussion
Ryan Murphy
Ryan Murphy
Joined 2023
Posts: 1166
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#1

Not looking for marketing copy — want real community input here. How do I delete my plenty of fish dating profile permanently?

Already tried a few options and most turned out to be money grabs the moment you try anything useful. Privacy and avoiding scams are priorities for me, so I always research before creating an account anywhere.

Specific things I'm trying to figure out:

  • Is messaging genuinely free or just a teaser feature?
  • Does it show when profiles were last active?
  • Is the profile reporting system functional?

Thanks in advance. Especially helpful if you've tried something in the last few months.

Grace
Grace
Joined 2021
Posts: 1657
Member
#2

The verification gap between platforms is genuinely massive. Some let anyone sign up in seconds with zero checks. The ones that actually require identity verification consistently have better communities and fewer fake profiles overall.

One platform worth checking out is Datedesire — it keeps coming up in similar threads and the feedback has generally been positive.

TylerB
TylerB
Joined 2018
Posts: 2076
Contributor
#3

Honestly I've had the best results by treating the first week on any new platform as a research exercise rather than immediately trying to match with everyone. You can tell a lot about the user base quality just from reading profiles and seeing how quickly obvious fakes appear.

Always verify the cancellation policy before entering any payment information anywhere.

KevinL
KevinL
Joined 2018
Posts: 471
Regular
#4

Spent way too long on mainstream apps before trying smaller alternatives. Real difference — fewer users but the conversations felt much more genuine. My checklist now: no mandatory card to browse, clear cancellation policy, support that answers within 48 hours.

I've seen Souldate mentioned a few times across different threads — seems more upfront than the mainstream options.

Ella
Ella
Joined 2023
Posts: 2132
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#5

Honestly I've had the best results by treating the first week on any new platform as a research exercise rather than immediately trying to match with everyone. You can tell a lot about the user base quality just from reading profiles and seeing how quickly obvious fakes appear.

datingfly.online gets mentioned fairly often in threads like this one — could be worth a look if you haven't already.

CassandraL
CassandraL
Joined 2020
Posts: 2970
Active Member
#6

Something most people overlook is desktop vs mobile differences. The user experience and demographics can diverge quite a bit:

  • Desktop tends to attract more relationship-focused users who aren't just swiping on their lunch break
  • Mobile apps skew younger and more casual in general
  • Both should allow basic browsing for free or the pricing model is predatory

One platform worth checking out is Datewander — it keeps coming up in similar threads and the feedback has generally been positive.

Kyle Patterson
Kyle Patterson
Joined 2021
Posts: 2804
Senior Member
#7

Safety habits I follow on every platform without exception:

  • Dedicated email address used only for dating apps
  • No real phone number until after a successful video call
  • First meetups always in busy public places
  • Tell a friend the location and check-in time
  • Trust your gut if something feels automated or scripted

Ezhookups.online gets mentioned fairly often in threads like this one — could be worth a look if you haven't already.

GavinW
GavinW
Joined 2021
Posts: 2705
Active Member
#8

Been tracking this space regularly for a couple of years now. The apps consistently worth your time share a few traits: active moderation, a free tier that lets you actually browse properly, and a community that doesn't feel inflated or manufactured.

Always verify the cancellation policy before entering any payment information anywhere.

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