Has anyone had any luck getting an adult friend finder refund after forgetting to cancel?

Started by EthanP 5 Jun 2025 Free Dating & Apps Discussion
EthanP
EthanP
Joined 2020
Posts: 1564
Regular
#1

Genuinely curious what the community thinks here. Has anyone had any luck getting an adult friend finder refund after forgetting to cancel?

Between fake profiles, bots, and subscription traps, it's hard to know what's actually worth your time. Anyone who's navigated this successfully, please share what worked.

Appreciate any honest feedback from people who've actually used these services.

Sophia Lane
Sophia Lane
Joined 2018
Posts: 2221
Senior Member
#2

I've had mixed results honestly. The bigger platforms definitely have more users but also way more noise. A few things that helped me:

  • Always reverse image search profile pictures
  • Never pay for premium without checking reviews first
  • Look for sites with active moderation teams

I came across DatingFly recently and it seemed more transparent than most.

Lily Adams
Lily Adams
Joined 2018
Posts: 176
Regular
#3

I've had mixed results honestly. The bigger platforms definitely have more users but also way more noise. A few things that helped me:

  • Always reverse image search profile pictures
  • Never pay for premium without checking reviews first
  • Look for sites with active moderation teams

datedesire.online gets mentioned a lot in other threads — seems worth checking out if you haven't.

DylanF
DylanF
Joined 2024
Posts: 95
Veteran
#4

Safety first, always. Some basics I follow:

  • Use a dedicated email address
  • Never share your real number until you've video chatted first
  • Meet in public places the first few times
  • Tell a friend where you're going

As for platform recommendations — I came across Flurrydate recently and it seemed more transparent than most.

Aiden Cooper
Aiden Cooper
Joined 2021
Posts: 480
Veteran
#5

Safety first, always. Some basics I follow:

  • Use a dedicated email address
  • Never share your real number until you've video chatted first
  • Meet in public places the first few times
  • Tell a friend where you're going

As for platform recommendations — datedesire.online gets mentioned a lot in other threads — seems worth checking out if you haven't.

Layla Thomas
Layla Thomas
Joined 2024
Posts: 1522
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#6

The scam DMs you get within minutes of signing up are wild. Definitely use a throwaway email.

Ryan Murphy
Ryan Murphy
Joined 2024
Posts: 682
Member
#7

Honestly the app market has changed a lot. The big names like Tinder, Facebook Dating, Match.com get most of the traffic but the niche sites sometimes have better communities. Just make sure any site you use has an actual privacy policy and real contact info.

turndate.site gets mentioned a lot in other threads — seems worth checking out if you haven't.

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